Fitness isn’t just about working out and eating right– the way you
think and feel can have a big impact on your health as well.
Studies have
shown that Buddhist and Hindu monks tend to live longer and happier
lives and the reason has to do more with how they think than how they
eat or keep healthy. You don’t have to be a monk to enjoy these kind of
benefits of putting mind over matter, however, as research is showing a
powerful connection between mind and body that can be accomplished by
anyone determined enough. Here are some ways that you can use your brain
power to make you happier, healthier and more fulfilled every day.
General
Here are a few simple ways you can change your thinking in a way that
can have a positive impact on your health.
- Get out negative emotions. Letting negative feelings
and emotions build up can cause negative health effects as they stress
you out and make you feel bad overall. Give yourself an outlet to think
about and deal with these emotions rather than just ignoring them.
- Try hypnotism. Many people report that
hypnotism allows them to change
their thoughts and behaviors. While it may not work for you, it doesn’t
hurt to try it out to see if it can’t help you to change your thinking
about bad habits and negative attitudes.
- Realize change is possible. When reflecting on
things you want to change in your life, don’t get discouraged by goals
that seem far off. Remind yourself of things you’ve changed in the past
and use that to motivate you to change things from unhealthy habits to
the way you deal with stress.
- Think about things that energize you. If you’re
feeling run down you may be able to use your brain instead of caffeine to
give yourself a jolt of energy. Try thinking about things you love to do
or that you’re excited about taking on. This may wake you up enough to
get you started on your day.
- Imagine yourself aging more slowly. They say you’re
only as old as you feel, and that can be true if you think young.
Visualize yourself aging more slowly and staying healthier longer and you
may have a better chance of actually doing so.
- Feel in control. Don’t let things in your life
override the way you feel or think. Use your thoughts to figure out a way
to get
control of a situation whether it’s at work, at home or your entire
life.
- Embrace your faith. Studies have shown that
having faith
can have a big impact on your recovery from illness and possibly your
overall health as well. If you do have a faith that you follow, make it a
part of your mental wellness routine.
- Trust in yourself. You won’t be able to change much
with your thinking if the first thing that comes to mind is how you’ll
likely fail. Trust that you can make a difference in any aspect of your
life you want to bring more happiness or well-being to and chances are
you will.
- Be honest. There isn’t much use in trying to think
yourself healthy if what you’re thinking is a lie. Be honest with
yourself about your past, good or bad, and commit yourself to thinking
about making realistic, healthy choices.
- Live consciously. Don’t blindly go through life
eating what is put in front of you or doing things just because they may
be easier even though they may harm you in the long run. Follow your own
thinking and make your own decisions about everything that comes into
your life.
- Accept what comes your way. There are some things in
life that there is no way to change, no matter how much you think about
them. Learning to turn your thoughts to acceptance rather than forcing
things to change is a big part in maintaining mental and physical health.
- Forgive yourself. We all make mistakes, do things we
regret and go back on our word sometimes. Don’t let minor setbacks
destroy the positive thoughts you have for yourself.
Forgive
yourself for these transgressions and start over fresh the next day.
Dealing With Stress
Stress can have a big effect on physical and mental health. Here are
some ways to think yourself free of it.
- Meditate regularly. Numerous studies have shown that
meditation can have a very beneficial impact on the brain and even change
how your brain processes things over time. Make time in your schedule for
meditation and you may
learn to control your stress and your mind.
- Relax and let stress go. You can use your thoughts
to help rid yourself of stresses. When you’re feeling overwhelmed take a
minute to relax and focus your thoughts on something else. Over time, you
may be able to better handle the big and little stresses that come your
way.
- Think about each breath. It can help to focus your
thoughts and draw stress away if you make a conscious effort to think
about each breath as you take it in and out. It will help relax you and
bring you more in touch with your body’s rhythms.
- Control your thoughts at bedtime. For many who are
stressed, getting to sleep at night can be a
challenge. Use your thoughts
to shove out all the worries and tasks that are floating around and to
concentrate on relaxing, restful thoughts even if that means just
counting sheep.
- Prepare mentally for bed. Before you ever hit the
sack, make sure your mind is ready to sleep. Start creating a thought
routine that will get you ready both mentally and physically for bed and
help you get the sleep you need to be happy and healthy.
- Revise your dreams. If you find yourself haunted by
bad dreams or awoken multiple times throughout the night by them,
learn to use your mind to control them as they are happening. This lucid
dreaming will allow you to turn nightmares into happier dreams and allow
you to get the rest you need.
- Concentrate on each muscle individually. One way to
relax is to concentrate on each muscle individually in your body and
relaxing them, bit by bit. By the time you’re through you should be in a
completely restful state and you’ll have your mind power to thank.
- Allow yourself to daydream. Daydreams are often are
body’s way of taking control when we need a break from the stresses of
our busy lives. Give yourself a chance to daydream now and then without
interrupting with thoughts of things you should be doing.
- Stop worrying. Many people fall into a mental
pattern of worrying constantly about things to the point that it causes
them a great amount of stress and anxiety. When you feel worries coming
on, train your brain to start thinking about other kinds of thoughts.
- Set aside time to think. With busy lives it can be
hard to find time to just think, let alone organize your thoughts and
prepare for the next day. Give yourself a few minutes each day, whether
it’s during your commute or before you go to bed, to let your mind wander
and think about your future, your relationships or whatever else it
wants.
- Write in a journal. It can be helpful when trying to
direct your thoughts and emotions to write them down in a journal. This
can be a great way to vent out negative feelings and emotions and to let
you track your progress in making changes in your life.
- Use color to control your thinking. Having trouble
relaxing or waking up in the morning? Colors can have a big
impact
on how we perceive things. Make your bedroom full of soothing colors
like greens and blues to help you get to sleep and try wearing a bright
color when you wake up to see if it gives you a little extra pep. By
using your natural associations with colors, you may be able to change
your thinking.
Illness and Disease
If are you are faced with potential illness or disease here are some
ways you can use the power of your brain to improve your chances of
recovery.
- Don’t think about the pain. Studies
have shown that when people are distracted from a pain source they
feel it much less intensely than when they are concentrating on it. Use
your brain to distract yourself away from your pain whether it’s a simple
headache or something more serious so you can feel better and get through
your day.
- Concentrate on getting better. This may sound like
something your mother would say to you to keep you from jumping back into
work or taking care of yourself but it can actually be true. Those who
focus their thoughts and energy on getting better more quickly are
actually more likely to do so.
- Believe in your treatments. If you go into a
treatment, whether it’s for something serious like cancer or something
more innocuous, thinking that it won’t work you’re actually lowering the
chances that it will work. Patients who go into treatment with a positive
outlook have a better chance of a positive outcome so try changing your
thinking. After all, it can’t hurt.
- Imagine you have a strong immune system. Some
studies have shown that you may be able to stimulate your immune system
simply by thinking about it. If you feel a cold coming on, try picturing
your immune system putting up roadblocks to stop the infection. It may
sound silly, but it just might work.
- Picture your body fighting off infections. Along
those same lines, whether you have a sinus infection or a serious
illness, you may be able to take a shot at helping clear it up by
concentrating on eradicating it with
your mind.
Imagine your body fighting off the infection bit by bit and it might do
just that.
- Listen to your body. Because people are often so
busy they may fail to notice signs from their body that something is
wrong until it’s too late. You know when something is wrong with you and
you don’t feel normal. Don’t put these thoughts aside, instead, listen to
them and try to figure out just where they’re coming from so you can get
help for whatever may be troubling you.
- Find a positive and friendly doctor. Patients who
have a
doctor with a positive outlook on their recovery and who treat them
with a friendly and understanding demeanor are much more likely to
positive outcomes from their treatment than those that do not. Find a
doctor that can help you go into treatment with a positive outlook and
you may improve your health in the process.
- Believe in miracles. Crazy things happen every day
and there is no reason to think that they can’t happen to you. Believe
even when there is little hope that there is still a chance for a cure or
treatment of your illness. While there is no guarantee, thinking
positively may have more of an effect on your wellness than you realize.
- Don’t fear treatments. If you go in for medical
treatments fearful and scared you may be causing yourself more of a
chance of future complications. Find a doctor you trust and bring along a
family member to help keep you calm and in a good state of mind before
you go under.
- Relax to save your gums. It has been shown that
stress and worry
are a major cause of gum disease or at least exasperate existing cases.
To avoid this sometimes painful and dangerous condition, allow yourself
to relax and think more positively about your life in general.
- Tell yourself you will get pregnant. Many women who
have trouble conceiving may find that they finally do after they imagine
the process happening. While it certainly isn’t a guarantee of success,
giving your body a little vote of confidence and positivism may be just
what you need to finally become pregnant.
- Take time to deal with negative things. Finding out
you have a serious illness or a potentially fatal disease can be
heartbreaking and any person would be upset. Give yourself time to fully
think through and deal with these feelings until you find that you can
think about them rationally. Only then will you be able to adapt a truly
positive outlook and influence your wellness in a genuine way.
- Stop thinking of yourself as a sick person. When you
are constantly thinking of yourself as being sick you may be resigning
yourself to that fate not only mentally but physically as well. By
thinking of yourself as becoming well again you may motivate your bodily
systems to kick into gear and give whatever’s plaguing you the boot.
- Don’t milk injuries. Along those same lines, if you
are hurt don’t pretend to be more hurt than you really are to get
sympathy. You may end up actually causing yourself to be sicker than you
were in the first place by convincing your body that you’re unwell.
- Understand that sometimes its all in the mind. Not
all illnesses have a physical cause, some are the result of built up
negative feelings, stress, and thoughts that you are carrying around.
If you can’t find the reason you’re in pain or don’t feel well, try
changing the way you’re thinking to see if that can make an impact.
- Don’t expect pain. When you expect something to hurt
or to have a negative side effect you increase the chances that it will.
Studies have shown that patients who were told a treatment would hurt or
who were advised it may cause headaches were more likely to experience
these side effects than patients who were not. So allow whatever
treatment you’re going in for to be whatever it will be and deal with it
as it comes.
- Don’t place blame for illness. Many patients
sabotage their ability to think positively about their illnesses by
blaming themselves for getting them in the first place, feeling that
they could have had less stress, eaten better or done a number of things
to prevent them. While this may or may not be true, it doesn’t change the
present. Don’t wallow in the past, instead turn your thoughts to how you
can positively deal with the present and make an impact on your future.
Emotional Health
A big part of your overall health is your happiness. Here are some ways
you can boost your mental outlook just by changing your thoughts.
- Concentrate on happiness. Want to be happy? Then
start thinking happy. Focus your thoughts on things that make you smile
and blessings in your life and you’ll see a turn around in your mood in
no time.
- Focus on positive aspects. There are always going to
be situations in our lives that seem downright rotten at first. But you
can help make them more bearable by focusing on the positive and when you
feel yourself getting down training your brain to go to these kind of
thoughts instead of those that make you feel worse.
- Start each day with optimism. It’s easy to roll out
of bed in the morning because you feel you have to or you are afraid of
the negative consequences if you don’t. This starts your whole day on
avoiding bad things instead of seeking out the good. Remind yourself of a
positive thing you want to get up for each morning and focus on that.
- Smile. You may be in a bad mood but if you force
yourself to appear like you’re in a good one you
may actually start to be.
- Change your inner dialogue. If all your thoughts
about things involve negative terms, worst-case scenarios and doom and
gloom you’re not doing yourself any favors health wise. Change the way
you talk to yourself to a more positive, motivating voice. You’ll be
happier and in the long run healthier too.
- Reverse thoughts. If you catch yourself heading down
a path to negativity stop yourself in your tracks and turn those negative
thoughts into positive ones. Over time you’ll improve your mood and make
it easier to get through your day.
- Give yourself compliments. Do something great today?
Looking sexy in a new outfit? Give yourself a compliment and acknowledge
your accomplishment. Do this often enough and you may be able to
influence your self esteem and think about yourself in a whole different
light.
- Use positive words in your thoughts. It’s very easy
to fall into the habit of using
negative words in your thoughts, but it’s also just as easy to
replace those negative words with positive ones. Instead of saying "I’ll
never be able to do this" think "This will be hard, but I know I can do
it."
- Put positive energy out there. Some people believe
that you get back what you give out. Whether you subscribe to that theory
or not, you won’t be hurting yourself any by taking on a more positive
and upbeat attitude and making others around you feel good.
- Expect the best. When you expect the worst to happen
sometimes you get your wish. Always assume that the outcome of a
situation will be a positive one. You may not always be right, but you
won’t have to spend hours moping about how you knew you wouldn’t be.
- Think of happy memories. You may be in the middle of
the worst day of work ever and all you want to do is crawl under your
desk and cry but you can help make a little bright spot in all that
horribleness by thinking about things that you’ve done that have made you
happy. Maybe a great trip with friends, watching your children play or
special moments with a spouse or loved one.
- Be friendly to yourself and others. Sometimes when
you think the best of others you help them to see themselves in that
light as well. You’ll feel better about having positive relationships
with others and who knows, maybe your kindness will be returned just when
you need it.
Diet
Help yourself stick to a healthy diet with these mental exercises.
- Control your cravings. Want to get your cravings
under control? Try to think about how you’ll feel if you indulge them.
LIkely you’ll feel guilty and beat yourself up about it. Focus instead on
how you’ll feel if you don’t cave. Probably pretty good. Give yourself
that positive mental reinforcement and you’ll be able to more easily stay
on track.
- Actively remember your last meal. Studies have shown
that when people take the time to actively recall what they had at their
last meal that they actually felt fuller and snacked less than those who
didn’t. See if this method can work to help curb your desire to snack
away, even if you don’t need it.
- Concentrate on food while eating. You
may find
that you’ll eat less overall if you concentrate on your food at every
meal and enjoy it slowly. This concentration will allow you to get more
joy out of eating as well as help you to feel more satisfied at the end.
- Visualize yourself as slimmer. Want to shed a few
pounds? Then stop thinking about yourself as a fat person. Visualize
yourself as the slim, trim person you want to be. The more you
concentrate on that person, the harder you’ll work to attain that goal.
- Understand your hunger. Not all hunger is based on a
true need to eat. It can be caused by loneliness, anger, sadness and
a variety of other emotional and psychological issues. When you feel
yourself getting the desire to eat, take a minute to think about whether
or not you’re truly hungry or if you’re just trying to fill some other
kind of need.
- Don’t beat yourself up. When making any big change
in your life you’re bound to have relapses and fall back on your old
ways. The same goes for eating well. Don’t be too hard on yourself for
these occasional slip ups. Remind yourself of all the times you didn’t
cave and simply start over again.
- Reward yourself mentally. Not all rewards have to be
physical. If you’ve done a great job keeping up with eating healthy foods
give yourself some credit. Think about how much better you feel and all
the benefits you’re getting from this new, healthy lifestyle.
Fitness
Help yourself meet your fitness goals by changing your mind set with
these suggestions.
- Think about exercise. Studies have shown that you
may be able to get some
moderate physical benefits from just thinking about working out. So
if you can’t make it to the gym, try concentrating on thinking about all
the exercises you would have done. While it’s no real substitute, it
beats thinking about cupcakes and french fries to keep you in shape.
- Get into the right frame of mind. If you go into a
workout thinking it’s going to be terrible and not being able to wait
until its over the experience will be miserable and you’re likely to get
little benefit from it. Change your mind set before you hit the gym and
focus on all the good you’re doing yourself by working out as well as the
long term benefits you’ll reap.
- Think of yourself as healthy. Imagining yourself as
a lazy bum isn’t going to motivate you to truly be healthy. Sometimes
thinking about yourself as a happy, healthy person can be all you need to
make that a reality.
- Make it a game. You can use your thoughts to make
working out a game. Make bets with yourself as to how much you can do,
challenge yourself mentally while on the treadmill and even use the
people working out around you to keep you entertained.
- Think of exercise as fun. If you think of exercise
as a chore it very likely will be. Think of it instead as an opportunity
and one that is giving you the chance to live a longer, healthier life.
Try working out during your favorite TV show or listening to a great song
while running to make working out more closely associated with good
things in your mind.
- Envision the negative effects of your bad habits.
Can’t seem to
stop
smoking or eating poorly? Take a moment to focus your thoughts on the
possible negative outcomes of these behaviors. Is it really no big deal
if you can get cancer or have a heart attack? These kind of thoughts can
help you get serious about changing these habits.
- Celebrate small victories. Are you finally able to
run a mile without having to stop? Can you now touch your toes? These
little steps in fitness should be a big deal to you. Give yourself a
mental party for your accomplishments and share them with whomever is
willing to listen.
- Think of your body differently. Many people avoid
gyms because they feel they are too fat or because they have low
self-esteem. Get your mind to start thinking
about your body in a positive light, whether you’re just starting out
or well into a fitness program. When you’re happier with the way you look
you’re actually likely to make more progress and feel more confident at
the end of the day.
Personal Development
Help yourself meet your own goals and be happier and healthier overall
with these mental tricks.
- Visualize yourself meeting goals. Whether you want
to quit smoking, lose ten pounds or get the promotion you have a better
chance of doing so if you
visualize yourself reaching the goal. It may sound silly but you may
work harder once you have a clear image of what success looks like.
- Downplay cynicism, ill will and envy. These kind of
negative thoughts won’t bring anything good your way. Instead, turn your
thoughts about others into a more positive light and remind yourself that
no one controls your happiness but you.
- Remind yourself of your successes. Even in the face
of a total failure don’t allow yourself to wallow. Pick yourself up and
start thinking of all the times you have succeeded at something rather
than failed. This can help you get back onto the saddle and on the road
to future successes.
- Visualize the future. Do you know where you want to
be in five years? If it isn’t working at your current job or even in the
city you’re living in then it may be time to sit down and have a good
long think about how you can start heading your life in the right
direction. Once you’ve got a goal in mind you can start thinking about
ways to meet it and focusing your thoughts on this instead.
- Think about what means most to you. Many people do
things simply because they are convenient or easy without really
considering what the most important things in life are to them. Focus
your thoughts and energy on those things that are most important and
you’ll start leading a happier and more fulfilling life.
- Make your goals realistic. While it’s good to be
ambitious, there are some things that may be setting yourself up for
disappointment. Set goals that are realistic for yourself and set your
thoughts to meeting these goals.
- Fake it until you make it. Sometimes all it takes to
be successful is to
pretend that you are already are successful. By believing that you
will meet your goals one day, and acting the part, you may actually be
setting yourself up for future success.
By Christina Laun
NursingDegree.net June 25, 2008
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